Have you been violent with your partner?

What is Violence?

Thank you for admitting that you've been violent. That takes a lot of courage and I really admire you for it.

As much as I would like to say that we can help, we just cannot... at least not online, not yet. The issues are just too sensitive and too much is at stake to risk doing online counselling when research does not yet exist to guide our practice in this area.

Please understand that you can change violent behaviour, and counselling can help. At this point we believe that face to face counselling is the best approach to help people become non-violent.

I would be glad to give you some tips on finding a face-to-face counsellor.

If you are a man living in the Lower Mainland of British Columbia, there is an excellent program you may be interested in. Click here to find out about the program called "Beyond Power & Control: Men in Relationships."

I wish you well as you wrestle violence into submission. Good-bye for now.